Things to Do and Decide:
- Set up captain/co-captain schedule.
- Will you have a parent volunteer to handle weekly emails/logistics?
- Team snacks for half time and/or after games?
- Is your daughter on the team? If yes, make sure you talk to her about your coaching role and how it will feel different during practices and games.
Continue reading “Pre-Season Logistics”
My oldest daughter played volleyball, and her team would huddle after every point, win or lose. It looked like a very positive thing, girls huddled up hugging each other. Sometimes it wasn’t though. A player in the huddle might assign blame for a lost point, demoralizing the group. Since the coach is not part of the team huddle, the team culture would reveal itself in these moments, good or bad. While the coach can’t control what happens in the huddle, it’s an extension of the team culture that was created during practices. It’s a little like baking bread; you get all the right ingredients at the right temperature. If you do all the right things and create the right environment, the bread rises on its own.
One my daughter’s teammates was invited to attend a national training camp. The coach told the players to kick the ball around in small groups before practice started. She approached a group and asked if she could join. A girl asked if she had been to this camp before.
“No, this is my first time,” she replied.
“This group is only for girls who have been to camp multiple times.” Continue reading “Building Team Chemistry”
We will be posting the first drafts of each chapter of our book. This is the chapter on The Pitfalls of Choosing A Captain.
It’s an act of graciousness to be a good follower.
My daughter was on a new club soccer team in which half the team were friends of hers from a previous team. The captain selection process seemed arbitrary. Right before every game, the coach would need a captain to start the game, and she tended to choose the same person, Anna*. Anna is a good player – there’s at least a half dozen players at her same level – and she’s a good friend of my daughter from playing on the same team the previous year. Even though the captain’s duties on this team was solely to represent the team before the game started and determine who kicked off, my daughter felt like Anna was “coach’s pet” and resented her and the coach. Continue reading “The Pitfalls of Choosing Team Captains”